Not ageing well

To some it is too soon to saw that. In less than 2 months I will have been married and turn 35. Turning 35 is not big deal to me. I have a few friends that will be 30 and they are freaking out. It is the not ageing well that bothers me. I guess you can say that I have become comfortable. I never dress up, I don't wear dresses! I hate them. I don't wear makeup, lipstick what it that? I don't do my hair, yes it is getting gray. Frumpy that is me. T was born 4 years ago and I never lost the 60 pounds that I gained. I really want to be in shape again but just cant get my butt in gear to go to the gym. I go, I will go for awhile then someone gets sick and I get out of my routine and just never get back into going. I want to be able to walk into old navy and buy an outfit. I guess the old saying once you are in your 30's it is harder to get the weight off. I will say it I am a stress eater. I have bad days, but do try and eat good. Will the baby belly ever go away!!!! Crunches...ya right